Spreadin' The Word About Blurb.....

"People who like this sort of thing will find this the sort of thing they like."
~Abraham Lincoln~

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Some of you may know about Blurb, but if you don't, which I didn't, here is the scoop! Blurb is an online source with free software you download to make your own professionally bound book at an extremely reasonable price! You can order one book or many books starting at the low price of $12.95! You can make your book available for sale on a private site or in Blurb's book store. The step by step tutorial is outstanding. You have a choice of book sizes and types, soft or hard cover, layouts, fonts, borders, colors, backgrounds, etc. You can add photos, art work, text, documents, etc. The possibilities are endless and I am really excited about this so I thought it worth sharing.(photo source)
How about turning your blog into a book? With Blurb you can! Kari Ramstrom of Artsy Mama is a wonderful artist who has used Blurb to create a beautiful book called, Artsy Mama, A Seasonal Guide to the Creative Life. Her book includes her favorite blog entries, her philosophy of living a creative and artful life, and wonderful tutorials. Her book has 250 gorgeous photos! Kari's book is for sale on her blog and on Blurb's book store. Have a peek at just one possibility for using this product.(photo source)
*Create a custom cook book, imagine a photo of a precious family member on one page and favorite recipe from their kitchen on the other page! What a great one of a kind gift!

*Need a unique wedding or shower gift? Blurb allows you to create great gift books!

*Immortalize your children's art into a coffee table book for Grandma!

*Have a poet in the family? Print up their poetry!

*Compile a coffee table book of your photography!

*Create a journal or catalog a trip!

*Are you an artist? Blurb your art work or share tutorials!

*Are you the family historian? Compile a family history with text, documents, photos, etc.

*What about putting the entire first year of your babies life in a beautiful quality book?

*Are you into scrapbooking, decorating, or crafting? How about making your own how to book?

*Is there a specialty subject you are knowledgeable about? Blurb it!

*Need a professional looking bound report for business purposes? Blurb can help you!

*Are you a home school mom? Use this as a Computer/Language Arts class, allow your student to learn to use the software and then write their own book. The reward will be seeing it in print!(photo source)
Blurb will even give the information on copyrights, purchasing and ISBN number, and a bar code if you desire to market your book in other ways! I could go on and on but I won't. Go over and check it out for yourself! Miss Sandy has already begun some great gifts using this software and at $12.95 for a unique and personal gift that will be a keepsake and family heirloom, you just can't beat that!

Blessings,
Miss Sandy

It's Tea Time.....

"Tea to the English is really a picnic indoors. "

~Alice Walker~(photo source)

I have been AWOL from La Tea Dah's (Gracious Hospitality) tea time posts for the past few weeks so I am planning to make it all up in one post! Grab a cup, settle in, 'cause it is tea time, my friends!

For the week of April 20-26 the tea time challenge was The-Sweet-and-Savory-of Yummy tea time recipes. Afternoon Tea contains three S's for me ~ the savory sandwich, the scone, and something sweet. (photo source)

First the savory sandwich! Below are recipes for two of my favorites, Baco~Dilly Sandwiches and the Seafood Tea Sandwich.

BACO-DILLY TEA SANDWICH

8 ounces cream cheese, softened
1/2 Cup mayonnaise
5 bacon slices, finely chopped (real bacon bits can be substituted)
1 TBSP chopped green onion
1 tsp dill weed
1/8 tsp pepper
1 Cup toasted slivered almonds

Mix ingredients until well combined. Spread half the bread with a thin coating of mayonnaise. Spread the other half of the bread with the cream cheese mixture. To make each sandwich, cut off crusts, and cut into three parallel sections, or four triangles.

SEAFOOD TEA SANDWICH

Shrimp, crab, or lobster may be used in this tea sandwich recipe, or any combination thereof.

3/4 Cup soft butter or cream cheese
1/4 Cup finely chopped chives
20 slices of bread, your choice
2 Cups finely chopped crab, shrimp, or lobster
1/2 Cup mayonnaise
1 TBSP lemon juice
1 tsp prepared horseradish (optional)
Salt and pepper to taste

Combine the butter (or cream cheese) and the chives; spread the mixture onto 1 side of each slice of the bread. Mix the remaining ingredients together in a small bowl, then evenly spread the mixture over 10 of the bread slices. Top with the other 10 slices, remove crusts, and cut. Makes 40 quarters or 30 fingers.

Now on to the scone of Afternoon Tea! I'd like to share with you some lemony goodness, but first a story of how I got the recipe. In our house we a strange tradition called, Cooking off the Wall. My daughter started this tradition when we converted a small 6'x4' hallway into a kitchen pantry.At the time, storage space in our small cottage kitchen was a desperate need so I came up with a solution. Off the kitchen was a door that led into a small hall, to the left was the master bath, straight ahead was a walk in closet, and to the right was the master bedroom. I really disliked the lack of privacy this door provided and we needed more kitchen storage. I asked Handy Hubby how hard it would be to move the bathroom and bedroom doors over, creating a new hall space in the front of the walk in closet, build a new closet wall, close off the old doorways, and convert the old hall into a pantry. My darling said, "Doable!", so we did.We carefully measured and designed the pantry for maximum efficiency . I chose a color palette of a deep rich green for the walls with cherry stained shelving. After so much construction, which we did ourselves, our budget was running really tight and we needed to cover the pantry walls, I originally wanted bead board but it was too costly so once again I put on my thinking cap.

We had a stack of new doors that were closeouts handy hubby had purchased at a ridiculous price of $80.00 for both solid wood and fifteen panel glass doors. Most of them he resold at a profit but we had some left over. With a bit of trimming and measuring we made them work. Three walls are covered with the fifteen glass panel ones and one wall was covered with a solid paneled one. To cover the glass panes I collected cookbooks from the 1920's and 1930's for their great graphics from various flea markets and decoupaged the pages over the glass. Some of the recipe bundles I found even had handwritten recipes which further enhanced the homey feel of the pantry.After what I thought was an eternity of gluing, the walls were done, the brackets were designed and cut by Handy Hubby, shelving was cut, edged, stained, and installed, and a special spice cupboard was designed, built, hand painted, and hung. All that was left to do was to fill it up with homey goodness.I had always wanted a pantry, ever since reading the Little House books where Almonzo built Laura a pantry. It seemed such a romantic gesture for him to want her work space to be comfortable and inviting. Hers even had a window where she could look outside and not feel closed in. My pantry has a little romance to it too. We replaced the modern door with one that we salvaged from and eighty something year old house. I refer to it as my romantic door. The little town the house was in is called Romance!My daughter kept going in there and moving the food to read recipes off the wall. She popped out one day and said, "Mom, how about we do some cooking off the wall?" A tradition was born. She picked a recipe, one that you could fully see and we bought the ingredients to make White Water Cake. Now, in the recipe books of this era there is a bit of confusion as to cooking times and temperatures. Most of them have instructions that say, "Cook in a slow oven." or they instruct you to stick your arm in the wood stove to see if the temperature is right so we guessed on time and temperature for this recipe.The cake came out beautifully but it felt a bit heavy. Hmmmm, a little hard to get out of the pan and onto the plate. Perhaps it needs chocolate frosting? We make some and slather it on. We decide that dad will be the guinea pig. Cut (sawed off ) a heaping helping and serve it with a flourish. One bite told the story, it was downright nasty! Yes, we tasted too, yuck! We went to scrape it off the plate and it stuck! You could turn the whole thing upside down and it stuck! After a fit of giggles we managed to pry the thing off and get it into the trash. With a twinkle in her eye, my daughter said, "When can we do that again?"

We have cooked off the wall many times and some things we like and some things not so much, but here is a delicious keeper that is a perfect sweet and savory yummy scone for a tea time treat.(photo source)

LEMON CREAM SCONES

3 Cups flour
1/2 tsp baking soda
1 tsp baking power
1 tsp salt
2 TBSP sugar
6 TBSP shortening
Grated rind of 1 lemon
1/2 Cup lemon juice
3/4 to 1 Cup buttermilk
1 egg, separated
Sugar for sprinkling (I like to mix a bit of white granulated sugar with a touch of lemon flavoring and yellow food coloring for a bit of color and extra flavoring.)

Sift together flour, baking soda, baking powder, salt, and sugar. Cut in shortening and lemon rind. Combine lemon juice, buttermilk, and egg yolk. Add to flour mixture. Knead on floured board for 20 seconds. Roll to 1/4 inch thick. With a sharp knife, cut into 2 in. x 3 in. diamond or triangle shaped pieces. Brush with egg white and sprinkle lightly with sugar. Place on greased baking sheet and bake in a 425 F oven for 10 to 12 minutes. Makes about 24 2 in. x 3 in. scones.

Combine this with a yummy Lemon Curd recipe and you have a winning combination! Lemon Curd is a thick, soft, spreadable cream that has a wonderful tart yet sweet flavor. Traditionally it was used to spread on scones but today it is also used to fill tarts, pies, cakes, and as part of trifle. You can also use it on toast, biscuits, bagels, etc.

EASY LEMON CURD

2/3 Cups fresh lemon juice
3 TBSP finely grated lemon zest
2 Cups sugar
1 Cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter - no substitutes
4 eggs

NOTE:
A room temperature lemon provides more juice, after squeezing, strain the juice to remove any pulp.

Zest is the yellow, sweet flavored outer rind of the lemon. A zester or a fine grater can be used to remove the rind. Cold lemons are much easier to grate. Grate lemons just before using the as the zest will lose moisture if it sits too long.

Mix juice, zest, and sugar in a 2 quart microwave safe casserole dish, add butter and cover with waxed paper. Microwave on HIGH for 4 1/2 minutes, whisk, microwave for another 30 seconds on HIGH, whisk.

Beat eggs until frothy and blend in 1/2 Cup of the hot lemon mixture, stir back into the casserole dish and whisk well. Cover with waxed paper and microwave on MEDIUM for 2 minutes, whisk.

Microwave on MEDIUM for 2 more minutes, whisk, microwave on MEDIUM-LOW for 1 minute, whisk, mixture should be as thick as mayonnaise, if not, continue to microwave on MEDIUM-LOW for one minute intervals until it is.

When lemon curd is done, whisk well and ladle into hot sterilized half-pint jars. Cover and cool at room temperature and then refrigerate. Makes 4 half-pints.

You cannot serve scones, even scones with Lemon Curd without Devonshire Cream! Originally from Devonshire County, England, it is a thick, buttery cream often used as a topping for desserts. It is still a specialty of Devon, Cornwall, and Somerset as this is where the right breed of cattle are raised with high enough cream content to produce clotted cream. It is also known as Devon cream and clotted cream. Clotted cream has a consistency similar to soft butter.

Before the days of pasteurization, the milk from the cows was left to stand for several hours so that the cream would rise to the top. Then this cream was skimmed and put into big pans. The pans were then floated in trays of constantly boiling water in a process known as scalding. The cream would then become much thicker and develop a golden crust which is similar to butter. Below is a mock recipe without the milking of cows, skimming the cream, or the scalding process!

MOCK DEVONSHIRE CREAM (photo source)

3 ounces cream cheese, at room temperature
1 TBSP sugar
1/8 tsp salt
1 Cup whipping cream

In a large bowl combine cream cheese, sugar, and salt; stir until well blended. Stir in whipping cream. With an electric mixer; beat until stiff. If you want this to have a bit of yellow color just add a drop or so of yellow food coloring. Store in the refrigerator.

Now that we have our tea time treats, we must have tea to go with them and The White, Green, Black, and Herb of Tea was for the week of April 27-May3. This is where you tell about your favorite tea, how you serve it, if it is a specialty purchase, etc. For more great recipes, run over to Razzle Dazzle Recipes!

For a summery iced tea with a hint of mint and the zest of lemon try serving Mint and Lemon Iced Tea!(photo source)

Mint and Lemon Iced Tea

3 Cups boiling water
4 black tea bags
2 fresh mint sprigs
1 Cup Sugar
1/4 Cup lemon juice
5 Cups cold water

Fresh mint and lemon slices for garnish

Use the boiling water to brew the black tea with the mint springs for five minutes. Strain or remove tea bags and mint. Add sugar and lemon juice, stir until the sugar dissolves. Stir in cold water. Serve over ice, garnish with mint and a slice of lemon.

As for a hot tea choice, well, you pick your favorite! I chose to share an iced tea recipe as it is starting to warm up a bit here and a mint lemony ice tea says summer!Last but not least, the sweets! I have confessed before that I do not like chocolate, however, I can tolerate it if it is wrapped around a big juicy strawberry! As far as I am concerned you cannot beat the strawberries grown in our state. I grew up going to the berry fields and eating them sun warmed, right of the vine. For my sweets I chose strawberry treats!

Plump ripe chocolate dipped strawberries:Lemon tarts, made with Lemon Curd filling in a graham cracker crust topped with a ruffle of cream cheese, half a strawberry and a bit of mint for garnish:And a super simple pastry treat of bakery sliced Creme Horns, dipped in powdered sugar, topped with a slice of strawberry, and a sprinkle of powdered sugar on top. (You can also add a swirl of cream cheese to the top if desired.):You may remember these and the delicious strawberry spinach salad from this earlier post, you will need to scroll down towards the bottom of the post.

We have our savory summery tea time selections now we must Set the Table, Tea is on! This was for the week of May 4-May 10 where you were to set your table for tea, show off your linens, serving pieces, pots, cups, three-tires, tea accessories, etc.

I decided I'd like to have an good old fashioned Hen Party! You know, where you and your favorite sister chicks get together for a good gab. I so wanted to set this up out in the field out by the barn but it has been raining constantly with more in the forecast. I decided an alternative would be in the kitchen, so I moved my picnic inside. I picked a color palette of red, white, yellow, with a bit of black thrown in to compliment the recipes above. I wanted to show that Afternoon Tea can be fun without all the fancy. I mixed together wicker for texture, tin, silver, crystal, and candle light for shine, and fabric and flowers for softness. Silk daisies with black and white polka dot centers and real lemons scattered about add a little punch.Let's start the Hen Party with a little hot tea service! A large natural wicker bread tray holds a vintage silver tea pot with a red Bakelite handle. The rooster and his mate seem to have a date . He is wearing his best bow tie and she her best apron. I think they plan to dine by egg cup candle light tonight! Lemony posies are perched behind the cute couple. These will be planted outside. I used some black and white polka dot paper to wrap around the pot, securing it with a piece of tape in the back and adding a raffia bow. I chose to use clear crystal cups and saucers with mini silver spoons. Tiny vintage restaurant creamers, a gift from a friend, stand at the ready to be filled. They are adorned with little daisy 3D scrapbook embellishments. Simply peel and stick!
Beside the creamers sits one sweet chick! This little red and white hen belonged to my paternal grandmother, here she is being used to serve sugar! A simple raffia bow is tied around her neck and another stick on daisy with a silk leaf is pressed into the center of the bow.
A chilled tin pitcher holds some of the fabulous Lemon Mint Tea! Two glasses are already poured, one for you and one for me! Another sweet hen rests between the crystal glasses of tea, she is filled with red cinnamon candy! To elevate her I turned a small red tin bowl upside down and placed her on top. Everything rests on a square vintage table cloth that has been folded into a triangle for visual interest.
More silver egg cups hold tea lights as a black wire rooster and fresh lemon hold court and the attention of the two little crochet chick egg covers. Red tin plates add some pop!For serving those yummy savory sandwiches, scones, and sweets I used my three tired server. Using simple natural wicker paper plate holders lined with red and white tin plates for serving trays. Just imagine a stack of savory sandwiches on top, with a ring of scones tucked in the middle, and a slew of sweets piled on the bottom.
Below rest Henny and Penny and their little silver spreaders ready to serve up the Mock Devonshire Cream and the luscious Lemon Curd! Henny and Penny are part of a set of four sweet chicks. They have story but it is best saved for another day. Now we must serve ourselves from these handled wicker plate holders with red and white tin plates. A bright yellow paper napkin is stamped (use permanent ink only!) with a red rooster, folded, and tied with a raffia bow finished off with a flourish of another dainty daisy. Grab some grub and lets gab!
I do sincerely apologize that you have to have imaginary food at this Hen Party. I have all the ingredients and fully intended to have everything ready and even do as La Tea Dah suggested and invite a friend over to share, however, my week has not worked out to do so. It was fun to play anyway!

To close out this post and to get me up to date on the blog-a-thon Tea Room Ventures and Venues is for the week of May 11-May 17. This is where you post on a favorite tea room, its menu, decor, gift shop, etc. I had planned a field trip to a small town about forty five minutes from here that has a tiny tea room and gift shop on the town square. Due to the illness and passing of my grandmother I was unable to. I still plan to check it out in the near future and I'll share about it then.

The last tea room I visited was last year with my two best friends, Pam and Sharon. Sharon's daughter told us about a tea room called, Victorian Garden, in a nearby town. While it is touted as a "tea room", it turned out to be a tiny intimate restaurant. While I found the decor a bit simplistic and lacking that cozy tea room feel, the food was excellent!

Our choices consisted of:
Victorian Fruit & Cheese — Chutney cheese spread, Brie cheese, Gouda cheese crepes, seasonal fresh fruit and crackers.
Soup Du Jour — Cup - which happened to be a cheesy concoction that was heavenly.
Chicken Salad — Poached all white breast meat, apples, almonds, celery and green onions tossed with our special sauce on a croissant. A house specialty. (This was Sharon's choice.)
Orange Nut — Mixed greens, fresh oranges, sautéed walnuts, and red onion topped with goat cheese and a sweet and sour dressing, topped with sautéed chicken strips. (My choice, can you say melt in your mouth, happy dancing taste buds delicious!)
Quiche Du Jour — Served with choice of seasonal fresh fruit, Victorian side salad, or cup of soup.
(Pam's choice.)

We closed out the meal with a shared pecan tart, when divided into three pieces, which left us each with am ample portion. We did have a cup of hot tea with the tart, so tea was a part of the experience. I found the above photo on the internet, this is the exact table we sat at, as you can see the decor is pretty sparse and the colors a bit dull. To me it lacked atmosphere but the company I kept and the scrumptious food more than made up for it. We can be pretty colorful characters and we decided it was a bit too stuffy for us as every time we burst into laughter we got a frown from the stiffly starched wait staff.

Our waitress was grumpy, I think her chef jacket thingy was buttoned too tight at the collar. I am hoping that my little field trip to The Tea Room will unearth a charming little spot that I can slip away to from time to time. (Hopefully it will be a real tea room this time!) For my birthday I want to go The Peabody for high tea. I'll let you know how that turns out.

If you have made it to the end my friend, then I thank you for bearing with me as I totaled up tea posts. Each highlighted link for the blog-a-thon titles will take you to a specific post where there are links to others who have posted on the topic also. I encourage you to visit each one of these wonderful ladies who are as warm as hot cup of tea on a cold morning and as sweet as Southern iced tea!

Blessings,
Miss Sandy

P.S. There is only one more week in the blog-a-thon and it will sadly draw to a close, be sure and check back in here next week to sign up for a special tea give away!

Thank you, It is well.....

"Your mercy, O LORD, is in the heavens; and your faithfulness reaches unto the clouds."
Psalm 36:5

I wanted to take a minute to thank this wonderful blogging community for the love, support, prayers, and friendship during my time of loss. It means the world to me, these virtual friendships that have formed and buoyed me up during this little life storm. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I have to say that all is well. I know it seems too soon to say so but I truly think I was prepared before hand. After my last visit with my grandmother in her home I just had this feeling that her time would soon be coming to a close here on earth. When preparing an essay for a writing contest, the Lord moved me in another direction and I wrote about her instead of my original subject. At the time it felt like I was letting go and saying goodbye. I shook it off and dismissed the thought. When she entered the hospital I had a knowing certainty that she would not recover. I knew the exact day and time I was needed as I stood in the place of her daughters, who could not bear to watch her draw her last breath but did not want her to be alone. I knew as I held her hand for two hours and nine minutes as her body slowly shut down that this was my final act of loving kindness to her. I knew the exact moment she was absent from the body and in the presence of the Lord and it was well with her soul.

Being able to blog a bit about it has helped tremendously. It is my nature to write out my feelings, putting pen to page as emotions pour forth until they or the ink run dry. It is my form of therapy, my emotional release. Thank you all for bearing with me even though my recent posts have been a bit heavy, life gets that way sometimes and it will be reflected in my blog. I'll soon get back to the fluff and stuff, I just need a bit more processing time.

I am relating much to Horatio G. Spafford , who penned the words of the famous hymn, It is Well With My Soul, in feeling the grief and loss of personal tragedy, only on a much smaller scale that he. Following the loss of his only son to scarlet fever, the great Chicago fires wiping out his real estate investments, and the tragic loss of his four remaining children in a ship wreck at sea, he could still rely on his faith and say, "It is well with my soul." The words he wrote for this hymn are based on Scripture, 2 Kings 4:26, and they echo the response of the Shunammite woman to the sudden death of her only child. It says that although, "she was vexed in her soul", she still maintained that , "It is well." Mr. Spafford's song reveals a man whose trust in the Lord is as unwaivering as hers was. This is how I too am able to utter, "It is well."
Even in the midst of loss, grief, and sadness there is still life and laughter. My grandmother adored children, for thirty four years she worked in her local school district, and she got the most fun from watching them and hearing all the cute stuff they say. At the visitation people poured forth to honor this grand lady who had meant so much to their community. Many children were present to say good bye to Ms. Lucille. I noted as we sat watching that the young ones were extremely curious and tiptoed forward to take cautious peeks over the edge of the casket. I got tickled and giggled. My grandmother would have love it! If she could have she would have ushered forth a breathy, "BOO!", and laughed when they were startled. I was not the only one to notice as I heard others around me say, "She would have loved seeing those children peek at her and she would have delighted in surprising them with a "boo!". The children being present, being respectful yet curious, knowing she would have loved it, it was well.

I have to tell you about an incident at the grave site. I wore a dress and a pair of heeled sandals, no hose, as is the fashion these days. Thinking absolutely nothing of my appearance or the lack of pigment in my skin off I went . Let me insert here that I am truly one of those lily white Southern Belle's. My mother, my daughter, and myself have what is termed fine porcelain skin. We are white! We do not tan, we burn to a crisp. We get freckles and that is the closest to a tan we come. We are an odd mixture of pigments in our family. My grandmother was of Native American descent. Her skin was always more olive and her hair very dark. My uncle was of the same coloring. My two aunts are of medium color in hair and skin pigment, while my mother has a bit darker hair but extremely fair skin. I ended up extremely fair with jet hair and none of that beautiful olive skin!

The final words have been said and all the friends and relatives are milling around catching up on family news, offering condolences, and sharing sweet memories, it is well. Out of the blue a tiny old lady with a cane approaches me and asks me who I am. I tell her my lineage, "I am Sandy, daughter of Carolyn, who is Lucille's oldest daughter." She looks me over as if to inspect me and see if I will do or not, shakes her head firmly, I think I have passed inspection.

She suddenly juts her cane forth poking at my leg, like a teacher would use a pointer to direct ones attention to something. She looks at me and says, "Them's the whitest legs I've ever seed! You must never git out in the sun!" Startled, I replied, "I don't tan. I have no pigment in my skin to tan. I just burn and get freckles." She looked at me sharply and poked her cane at her young (16ish) great grand daughter(who looked like a very overdone piece of toast!) and said, "Well, you need to do what Hailey here does. You NEED to git to the tannin' bed right quick!" I cracked up, all the tension of the day found sweet release, laughter rang forth as my granny and I had our last giggle together and it was well.Aside from the white skin we also have propensity to look younger than we are in my family, which is a huge blessing at my age! (Perhaps this is because of our inability to tan so our skin is not wrinkled from the sun.) No one thinks I can possibly be a grandmother(I am and proud of it), that my son can be married (has been for seven years)and is a father(of an on almost two year old), or that my daughter is any older than 12 (she will be twenty soon). We are at the church that prepared a meal for the family. My son and daughter are standing in line. One of the hosts looks up at her and grabs a big bowl of chicken nuggets. He announces, "We made these special just for you youngns', have some." She politely declines as her brother breaks forth in laughter and teases her about chicken nuggets and being a young kid. We think granny would have loved this and we laugh over the retelling of it and it is well.

All in all, the flowing of sweet memories, the bits of joy, the moments of sorrow, the pangs of grief, the ability to laugh, the stream of tears, the continuing on of life, it is well.

Much Thanks and Many Blessings,
Miss Sandy

Happy Mother's Day.....

I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life. ~Abraham Lincoln(photo source)
A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts. ~Washington Irving

The formative period for building character for eternity is in the nursery. The mother is queen of that realm and sways a scepter more potent than that of kings or priests. ~Author Unknown

Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.
~George Cooper

(photo source)
One lamp - thy mother's love - amid the stars
Shall lift its pure flame changeless, and before
The throne of God, burn through eternity -
Holy - as it was lit and lent thee here.
~Nathaniel Parker Willis

Happy Mother's Day
to all you wonderful mother's
in blogland!

Blessings,
Miss Sandy

Amazing Grace.....

"And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."

2 Corinthians 12:9

In these last few days I am finding out what is so amazing about grace. I have learned that grace is an enabling power sufficient for progression. Grace has enabled and moved me forward through circumstances, decisions, and actions that I would have never been able to do on my own. Grace has helped me to overcome limitations and weakness. It has also been a shelter, providing temporary immunity, exemption and reprieve from grief and loss, giving me strength for others in the face of adversity. I have learned that grace is a state of being protected by the favor of God and that it is an indispensable gift.

I awoke this morning thinking about a line from the hymn, Amazing Grace. It says, "Thro' many dangers, toils, and snares I have already come. 'Tis grace that brought me safe thus far, and grace will lead me home." The writer of this hymn, John Newton, also knew the power of amazing grace. His life was fraught with dangers, toils, and snares, many of which were a result of his own choices and some of which were circumstances beyond his control. John led a life unrivaled to fiction. At one point in his life he was a crewman aboard a slave ship. On the evening of March 9, 1748, John, 23, was jolted awake by a brutal storm that descended too suddenly for the crew to foresee. The ship began to fill with water and the threat of sinking, in great peril, John cried out to the Lord. Amazing grace must have been a sweet sound indeed as his fears were calmed and he survived the storm that had threatened to overwhelm him.

I identify closely with this line of the hymn as well as John's experience. On the evening of May 5, 2008, I was jolted by a life storm that descended too suddenly to be foreseen by humankind ~ death. This storm threatened to overwhelm and sink me, drowning me in sorrow and tears, sinking me into a state of depression. In my great peril, like John, I cried out to the Lord and He sustained me. His grace has brought me through safe thus far. It will also lead me home, on the path of healing and dealing with every danger, toil, and snare that might come my way. This life storm will be survived because of God's amazing grace.

So you wonder, what is so amazing about grace? It is sufficient, enough to meet the needs of any situation. God's grace shines in our times of weakness, where we are insufficient, He is able. He enables us to trust in the power that rests upon us in the most trying of times knowing that His power will pull us through.

Today I need a hearty dose of that amazing grace. This is the day that we say our final goodbye to my beloved grandmother and once again I am certain that amazing grace will be present. It will bear us up, anchor us, enable us, and its sound will be sweet indeed.A woman of more noble character you will not find,
her price is far above rubies.
I am so glad that she was mine,
a grandmother who never neglected her duties.

Hugs, kisses, and smiles were dispensed,
in generous heaping portions.
Prayers were lifted in our defense,
to protect from evil forces.

Gentle, caring, and kind was she,
to all who crossed her path.
She was full of life and merry,
full of fun, she loved to laugh.

A listening ear was always near,
with wise advice to follow.
Without her presence so dear,
my heart feels a little hollow.

While I will miss her very much indeed,
I've tucked her memory in my heart.
Her words of wisdom I will heed,
and from her example I will not depart.

Whenever I feel the need,
I can draw her sweetness forth.
And it will my example and source.
Of amazing grace indeed!



Amazed by Grace,
Miss Sandy

The Race is Run.....

Her time of departure was at hand.

She fought a good fight.

She finished her course.

She kept her faith.

Well done, thou good and faithful servant.

Now she rests.

My beloved grandmother, Irwin Lucille Gregg, departed this life at 9:39 PM this evening. As she held my hand through life, I held hers through death. It was the last physical act of loving kindness I could extend to her and it hardly seemed enough. She is at peace and I sorrow. Now I must help to prepare her life celebration and the strength that kept me at her side seems to have ebbed. My love for her cheers me on to do my best lasts for her.

I may be called on to speak, yet I feel I have no voice, words and heart fail me. I feel like the phoenix, a mythical bird with beautiful gold and red plumage. At the end of its life-cycle the phoenix builds itself a nest of cinnamon twigs that it then ignites; both nest a bird burn fiercely and are reduced to ashes, from which a new, young phoenix arises. The new phoenix is destined to live, usually, as long as the old one.

I feel as if my emotions have been ignited, fiercely burned, and been reduced to ashes. Now I must garner strength from the example of the old phoenix, my grandmother. As the new young phoenix I must arise and live my alloted days as well as the old one did and make her proud.

The story of the phoenix is a symbol of Christ, representing His death, resurrection, and life-after death in heaven. These are the truths the foundation of my faith are built on and they comfort me in this time of loss and grieving. I cling to the promises that I will receive comfort in my mourning and it will be turned into joy, eventually replacing my sorrow. I know my broken heart will be bound up. I know that He will give me beauty for ashes and strength in fear as He drapes me in a garment of praise, which will cloak the spirit of heaviness. He will enable me to honor her and glorify Him.

Perhaps I too will be able to amass some of the beautiful plumage the old phoenix is known for. Some gold, in the form of richness of character, wealth of wisdom, and a treasure trove of the Christian graces ~ love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and self-control. Some red, a primary color of light, living in the Spirit and walking in the Spirit, sharing the light of Christ. My grandmother bore such plumage and I can only hope that as I rise from the ashes of sorrow that it will be reborn and reflected in me. This is the greatest last gift I can give to honor her ~ to walk in her shoes.

Struggling to rise,
Miss Sandy